Esmé is a UK based book blogger who blogs at Esmoogle Reads, where she is the creator of #TheBookRecLottery. You can also find her on Twitter.

What does it mean to you to be bi?

For me, in straightforward terms, it means
this: I like men. I like women.

However, it never actually is that
straightforward, is it?

When I first came out to a few people,
their first response was to ask ‘but how
do you know you’re bi when you’ve only ever been with men?’.

I guess it’s a valid question; throughout
school I giggled with my friends over crushes on boys, had few semi-serious
boyfriends through my late teens and am currently coming to the five year mark of
a relationship with a pretty wonderful guy. We moved away from home and in with
each other, have discussed marriage and kids, and are…